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  • Sometimes. I think the meaning of the arrows are somewhat contextual.

    Downvoting spam for example isn’t “disagreement”, but it is a kind of disapproval.

    Upvoting your post isn’t “agreement”, but I do it because I think it’s an interesting question (maybe a kind of approval)?

    If we generalized I guess we could ask whether upvotes are always relating positive emotion (approval, agreement, joy, etc.) and downvotes always relating negative emotion (disagreement, disapproval, anger, etc.)?

    That is, are upvotes “yays” and downvotes “boos”?


  • dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRulesauce
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    Oh, sorry - maybe I wasn’t clear. That’s not what the video implied was going to happen, the audience always knew nobody was going to be hurt, and that the train was going to be stopped before it hit the workers. The episode shows how the “live” video feeds were actually recordings.

    What was upsetting was that they made it seem like there was someone not in the know who thought they were actually having to make that choice, who didn’t know it was staged, which of course would be unethical.


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    vsauce’s trolley problem episode made me lose respect for him - he pretended to simulate the actual trolley problem, so you watch the episode thinking real people are being put in a situation where they have to make a choice of whether to pull a lever and kill one person or not pull the lever and let three people die. They even have an ethics board. This is of course distressing to watch because you think he’s doing this unethical thing by forcing them to actually make that choice. He never discloses, but researching the people in the video I found out they were actually actors, so the audience was being duped by thinking it was real. Either way it’s deceitful and upsetting.





  • CW: self-harm

    I enjoyed self-harming and feeling pain when I was dissociating a lot, I think there are clearly examples where people inflict pain on themselves for non-sexual and non-religious (i.e. not for punitive / atoning) reasons. Besides some kinds of self-harm, eating spicy food seems like a clear example of this. Pain releases endorphins, you can get high on pain. For what it’s worth, I also have enjoyed every physical trauma I have experienced (being hit by a car, being thrown over the handlebars of my bicycle at speed and my face hitting the asphalt first, etc.).




  • Since I transitioned I’ve been thinking a lot about how little I knew about trans people until I realized I was one and then took much more seriously educating myself.

    It makes me feel ashamed because of how little I understand so many other oppressed groups, and how little true empathy I have. Even if on the surface I have respect for people and consider myself an “ally” to various groups, I feel I should do more than just signal respect and support. Maybe it’s an unrealistically high bar, but my conscience certainly thinks I need to do more to empathize with and better understand other groups.

    I can’t help but feel my default tendency is towards a kind of accidental tribalism - I understand perspectives I choose to engage with and understand and this results in a cultural cloistering, an accidental in-and-out-grouping because of how I naturally do or don’t understand someone’s life experience based on my own. Unless I go out of my way to do a lot of work to understand other perspectives, I otherwise won’t be likely to do that.