Male, Dutch, HSP, INFJ, Into all things Tech and SciFi. Love my dogs and my birds.

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Cake day: October 31st, 2024

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  • One thing i have to comment on, blame is much like an excuse. I haven’t had a great childhood myself. Both my parents where mentally challenged, ive been taking care of them since i was 12. But i don’t blame them. It is what it is, and now i move on. I feel blame is another way of saying “i dont have to change because its their fault”

    Mind you, i blamed my parents for a while… But in the end, they are just a product of their upbringing. And i choose to not be. I choose to make my own choices, and be responsible for my own life.

    I hope you can get past the blame part, and start focussing on what is to come, not that which was. Focus on your “flaws” and change them.

    Good luck!