I was diagnosed as a child (early elementary school, I don’t really remember the details), but my parents took me off the medication because they didn’t notice a difference in my grades. I don’t know if there was a difference in my behavior, it was too long ago and I don’t think I was capable of self reflection.
What I do remember though is when I began taking it again in college and ever since. It’s made a big difference.
“adderall turns the roomba on, but doesn’t stop it getting stuck under the couch”. Your parents were eeediots
Haha nice, I had something similar to this. I’m an accountant/auditor who has ADHD and doing that undiagnosed was a special kind of hell. I was lucky enough to work in a very reputable firm too and the good ones, when you complete your work, will carry out a formal, two-stage review process. They’ll write out, on a separate sheet all the errors you made and you have to reply with how you fixed them. First by my line manager or department head and then by the partner who’s client it was.
Essentially, I had to have multiple teams of professional auditors telling me, in explicit detail and fully evidenced, that I had a problem with errors of inattention for years before I finally realised that I might have a problem with errors or inattention.
Luckily, I respond particularly well to the medication and things are much better now.
I recently did something like this….
I was diagnosed as a young child. I don’t remember an assessment and was never medicated. The coping mechanisms I was taught growing up were not contextualized as “for ADHD” they were just “the way things had to be done to get things done” As I grew into adulthood, I chocked up the behavioral differences to just the way different folks from different families learn to do things differently. Living as an normie, I started to question/forget my diagnosis.
So there I am, rediscovering that I might have ADHD as an adult from memes on the internet. When I mentioned it to my folks my mum emphatically reminded me that I absolutely had an official diagnosis X0 some years ago.
My mom was an esl and special education teacher, who raised my audhd siblings and me similarly. My oldest sister is kind of a bad speller, and it turns out she’s straight up dyslexic and my mom taught her how to read and write so that it didn’t matter. Unfortunately she’s dead and nobody in my family knows how she did it.
I think the difference is the masking and different freedoms between being a kid and an adult.
Adult ADHD isn’t quite the same as kid ADHD. It just presents differently. IOW, the kid that can’t sit still and can’t focus on boring tasks (the adhd stereotype) with school’s rigid rules or home has grown up and maybe found a job that allows a workaround or maybe ADHD helps a bit, and the other symptoms have morphed into messiness and tardiness - stuff that nobody but the ADHD person and maybe a partner has to deal with. They become quirks vs failing grades.
Yeah, ADHD can be a lot worse as an adult and cause real problems, especially for people who had life progression interrupted because of school failures and maybe substance abuse used to self medicate or even abuse at home when people were verbally or physically abused because they were non-normative.
My entire family is non-norm. One of them was incredibly frustrated, hurt, and angry that their parents knew they were ADHD, didn’t tell them, and did nothing about it. They spent years rudderless and wasting time at schools, never accomplishing anything despite the good resources. They were particularly angry because they knew that if they’d known and been able to be medicated they would have far more likely completed a valuable higher education and likely be in a desirable career far sooner than the twenty-odd years extra it took to get even close.
But back in the day you kept your mouth shut about mental conditions because the prejudice was so much worse than today.
Lmao when I got diagnosed with adhd, the doctor offered my mom a test. Turns out we both have adhd, who would’ve thunk
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD, and it got me wondering if my dad had it, too. It would explain some things.
I was diagnosed about 20 years ago. Went through the pharma-go-round and all that. I remember it pretty well considering they the only med to do anything was Adderall and what it did was give me panic attacks for routine work problems.
Fast forward to last year and needing serious mental health treatment. Psychiatrist after talking to me for 20 minutes: “I don’t think you have ADHD.” APN from a different practice: “You’re just trying to get stimulants.” I tried tracking down my old doctor, practice was closed. Found him elsewhere, has no access to the old records.
Got myself a full neuropsych exam. ADHD, autism, PTSD, possible bipolar II. Neat.
Fast forward another year. Still on the pharma-go-round. Still not on ADHD meds. Turns out my depression is treatment-resistant. But at least I found providers that aren’t writing me off based on vibes or whatever.
Stimulants are contraindicated for bipolar disorder, that’s probably why you had a bad reaction to ADHD meds. If you’re actually bipolar that is. Bipolar and ADHD are regularly misdiagnosed for one another. Further complicating things, something like 60-70% of bipolar people also have ADHD. Mood stabilizers are the first line treatment and, depending on how well you’re able to manage your bipolar symptoms, some psychiatrists may give a low dose stimulant or SNRI to help with the ADHD issues.
I learned all.of this after my new psychiatrist decided that I’m actually bipolar instead of ADHD. She’s not treating me for either and instead went with Prozac for my depression. As someone who’s also on the pharma-go-round, I wish you the best and hope you find something that works well
My old doctor once gave me an antipsychotic for ADHD, because they thought I was looking for stimulants. It did not help.
Thanks, the best to you as well.
Intellectually, I get why they’re doing the things this way. I’ve been in IT for 25 years, I’ve done my fair share of troubleshooting lol. But the slow motion nature of it is torture. Will this work? Dunno, let’s give it 6 weeks. Okay, now up the dose. Anything? Up the dose again. Guess this wasn’t the right one. Taper time! Okay now try this. Will it work? Dunno… etc etc.
All the shit going on in my head feels like a bundle of Gordian knots. Try to tease out a loose end, it just pulls the whole thing tighter. I get why they’re trying to concentrate on one aspect, but again, knots. I’m trying to have patience, but at the same time these bills aren’t going anywhere. If I don’t pay them my Right To Exist is revoked and all of the effort was for nothing.
Straight up, I really dislike being treated like I’m an addict. Homie, I have to set two reminders to take my Adderall and I still forget it.
So the shrink did the (billable, assuming US) test knowing the person was already diagnosed?
Maybe they have ADHD too and forgot to check the system before the diagnosis.
When you search for ‘signs of dementia’ and all the links are purple (visited) already…
I had a childhood diagnoses. Parents took me off meds before i was 10 because they didnt like how i was on them (Straterra appetite suppression mostly, i just wouldn’t eat). Puberty then hit, and my newfound appetite leads to me discovering i really like food.
Now adult, symptoms never went away. My childhood medical records AFAIK don’t even exist anymore (or if they do, its on the dark web. Thanks, DoD/tricare!) and my parents didnt keep anything.
Reminds me of one of my favorite Louie bits.
oh right
New Lemmy Post: I could easily see myself doing this too. (https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/35759636)
Tagging: #memes(Replying in the OP of this thread (NOT THIS BOT!) will appear as a comment in the lemmy discussion.)
I am a FOSS bot. Check my README: https://github.com/db0/lemmy-tagginator/blob/main/README.md
This bot is gonna get banned cos people hate bots unfortunately
It’ll never get banned. Report it and you’ll get an auto-reply telling you not to report the tagginator bot.
I still don’t understand why whatever it does necessitates leaving a comment. Why can’t it just post a link with hashtags on its own community? Why does it have to show up IN the post?
[Edit] I just reread it’s readme page and it doesn’t explain why. It also says this which made me laugh:
they do cannot be tagged.
I hate when they do cannot be tagged!
Replies have a direct federated reference to the original post, while links take you to different instances. There are way more than 1 Mastodon and Mbin instances that want this. Just block it if you don’t wanna see it, as I for one like it.
Why can’t the link URL be changed to the server it wants? It’s already using fediverselink.
Why does the comment have to be federated in the post? Would the bot making a post in the “tagginator” community NOT get federated, too?
I just looked at your mbin instance (in a browser) and I don’t see the tags anywhere. Can you show me what it’s actually doing because I genuinely do not understand why it’s necessary.
I’ve heard the “just block it” suggestion before on other bots and I did so…but it still adds to the comment count and I find it kind of annoying when it looks like there’s a discussion starting and I either find nothing or a bot.
Lemmyverse only works for Lemmy.
Check out https://kbin.melroy.org/tag/memes . On Mastodon you can even use hashtags as feeds, and that’s being implemented on Mbin as well AFAIK.
it still adds to the comment count
I don’t click if the comment count isn’t over 2.
People really prefer browsing this way? With a tagginator comment between each post on that page and
I still struggle to believe there’s not a better way to do this exact same thing without a bot leaving comments
I don’t click if the comment count isn’t over 2
It’s a bummer you have to change habits to accommodate this bot…
Like I said, Mastodon treats it much better. Collections haven’t come to Mbin yet either, so hashtags are sort of a stopgap to aggregate subs.
It’s a bummer you have to change habits to accommodate this bot…
It’s an easy habit to change. Back in the Reddit days of yore you had a pinned AutoMod comment for like every single thread.
I still struggle to believe there’s not a better way to do this exact same thing without a bot leaving comments
Well, let’s search for one then, eh?
Meh, ‘block’ and move on. Same as that stupid ‘media bias fact checker’ thing in the news communities.
No, and that was finally removed.
