Blub

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • I don’t think there’s even a definitive category for it, it’s basically anything that you do because you like it. Like splurging on food once in a while, watching good movie, take a day off and just relax, go out for a walk, going the vacation you always wanted to, buy that thing that you’ve been keep on hold for some times, pet a snake, go for a hike, anything that you can do to yourself and can help you calm yourself down and makes you happy.

    They always asked this because everyone is so different, defining it for their patient is hard, you need to know it yourself. How long ago since you’ve changed your afterwork habit? Maybe they think you doing the same thing over and over again is the reason you’re stuck in this situation? Baring being send by someone else demand, you gonna need to know why you seek therapy in the first place. Actually THEY need to help you figure out, so i understand why you said they’re terrible at that.

    Personally, doing “selfcare” is doing something i like that i don’t do regularly. Getting froyo is one, splurging on food is another, hiking as well.
















  • One of these day he’ll kill someone, and that someone could be the sole breadwinner of a struggling household. Struggling to make ends meet is really no excuse for dangerous driving. Besides, that check engine light isn’t a good indicator of someone’s financial status. They can be oblivious, not willing to take time out to have it checked, know what’s the issue is but chose to ignore it, or simply not care about maintenance of the car.

    I’d say report it.