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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • This is my take as well. She’s happy to see/ talk to you, but she thinks she’s sending out some kind of hint or another then gets moody when she thinks you haven’t picked up on a vague hint and responded in kind.

    If she’s said you can come over (again, vaguely vs outright asking you to come hang out on X day), then ask her if this Saturday would be good? Figure out a movie to stream. After you start it, get a cozy blanket and ask her if she wants to snuggle while watching the movie?

    This would have totally worked on teen me.



  • I gave up Diet Coke once upon a time. But to supplement my caffeine dependency, I started drinking the “energy” Crystal Light and Mio drink mixes. I enjoyed those but I noticed I had more heartburn with them. So I went back to Diet Coke. I guess this anecdote isn’t a true cold turkey example. I only switched to the nicotine patch of soft drinks.


  • I guess it depends whether you prefer reading fiction for entertainment or nonfiction. If you’re reading fiction, does it matter if AI wrote or helped write it? Do you watch movies with CGI or only practical effects?

    If you don’t want to give your money to an AI’s handler, utilize the library.

    If you’re concerned a book will be bad or a waste of time, then adopt a personal policy of giving yourself permission to abandon reading the whole thing if you’re not enjoying it. I call this my Bristol Rule, because I was in Bristol (Tennessee) during the last time I forced myself to finish drinking a cocktail that tasted horrible, and I didn’t want to waste my money. I ended up with a VERY regrettable hangover. I then resolved to give myself permission to give up, not finish, throw away, walk away from, or generally discontinue something I’m just not enjoying, and accept the monetary loss and the lesson.







    • what did she find strange about America when she arrived here?
    • what did she do for fun?
    • does she recall any experiences her parents/ grandparents told to her about their lives?
    • what was her favorite meal/ treat as a kid?
    • what is the most scandalous story she heard from a friend or family member?
    • did she or anyone in the family sing or play an instrument? What did they play?



  • Raised by hippies who let me be free range a bit. One grandmother took me to Methodist church from age 6-12ish. Jr high friends got me to go to a Baptist church a little (those cats have no chill). Overall atheist though which drew some social ostracization when I let my views be known.

    I was pretty hardline about it in my 20s. 30s were more “let everyone do their own thing, man”. Now in my late 40s and I find myself drifting back toward agnostic.

    There are unexplained things I’ve encountered. I’m reasonably sure science will catch up (maybe) and explain them. Until then, they remain “energies” that caused unexpected results, probabbly just weird brain glitches, but what if…?