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Cake day: September 13th, 2023

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  • Anger is fueled by love. My anger is fueled by a woefully irrational love for this country, my state, my city, my neighborhood, my friends, my family, the culture and beauty birthed by this nation, now being set ablaze to avoid facing the atrocities committed to build it. While i am not fond of the past, but i must embrace it and love it; and only once there is not even a memory left of this place i call home, will flame burn out




  • I don’t know that i have the patience to do that more than once per person, i end up analyzing their thought patterns to sus out the root cause of the failure to adapt to new thinking. This kind of thing might be based on family culture or inappropriately reinforced assumptions about basic concepts that did not got caught by earlier educators. I will explore their cultural and family backgrounds to figure out how assumptions from there affect these failures to adapt to more dynamic environments.

    A new model can be planted over inappropriate beliefs for the context of the new environment (here at work, generalizing is not only okay but necessary), and then it has to be reinforced over many months to keep the previously dominant mindset from reverting and help them build comfort with the new way of thinking.

    The great part about this is that people who learn the adaptations this way will naturally teach others with the same maladaptions, and much more effectively. The terrible part is that it is slow and tedious and almost always includes religion or trauma






  • I’m torn on how to approach this, i’m left with a couple of options:

    A) so Trump would somehow be even less self defeating?

    B) are you suggesting we should all spontaneously rise up and overthrow the military industrial complex?

    C) if you think this world view is self defeating then:

    C.1) you owe some clarifying thoughts as to how you see a measured response to the existing democratic systems as self defeating

    C.2) you appear to be making yourself out as someone who idealizes violence and oppression

    C.3) you appear to be using contrarian language with the explicit purpose of dragging down the mood of the conversation. Quit that shit







  • Not that it will have any immediate effect, but - if you wear the right skin and attitude - you can leverage your perceived position as being on the in group to sow seeds of doubt against the whole in-group/out-group thing. These people will bend over backwards to be perceived as worthy by the in group, which makes them highly fuck-with-able

    Get it in their head that they are part of the out group for even bothering with the in-group/out-group nonsense



  • kmaismith@lemm.eetomemes@lemmy.worldBeep beep
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    1 month ago

    It would be safer if we were all riding the train/bus. Getting in a car in america is accepting the risk that you share the road with everyone. no matter the qualifications or mental state we still all gotta get to work/grocery store/wherever, and the only way is by ~4000 pound metal speed box.

    Worrying about safety on the highway is about making sure you are in situations you can handle and react to, staying attentive to the styles and mental states of other drivers and being a step ahead of the road conditions