• SlippiHUD@lemmy.world
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    14 days ago

    Yeah, it’s precisely why I stopped using every social media except the fediverse. It was toxic to my mental health.

    I feel safe assuming it’s been similarly toxic to everyone else’s, just some people haven’t zeroed in on that being the problem.

    • FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      14 days ago

      Even Lemmy was like this. Especially with the default comment sort “active”, which promotes comments that lead to arguments. My experience has been better since I switched to “top”.

      I still haven’t found a good post sort that works for me. “Hot” and “Scaled” literally only promote stuff posted in the past two hours. “Top” is kinda sad because you always see posts 1 day old, and “Active” has the negative engagement problem.

      The best solution I’ve found is be on an instance with downvotes disabled and sort by “active” but it isn’t perfect.

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        14 days ago

        I just sort by newest over 12/24 hours. I’ve found I tend to argue much less with idiots if I get in and out before the troublemakers show up.

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        14 days ago

        I feel the same way and now typically use “Top 6 Hours”

        …which is a actually how I found this thread.

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        I just subscribe to communities I like, then sort by “New” to read those “Subscribed” communities. When I run out, I change to “Scaled” and “All”.

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        14 days ago

        Thanks for the tips. I’m going to play around with it. Mine is set to hot currently, but maybe that’s not my cuppa.

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        14 days ago

        maybe we should be able to blend several of these like i’ll take 20% of top day and 30% of active and 5% controversial… lemmy would grow more of the content was more suitable.